You’re the average of the 5 people that you spend the most time with.
– Jim Rohn
There’s a lot to be said for the influence that the people around you have. You may have had an experience where you spent some time with someone that your parents didn’t necessarily approve of, and when you came home, they could tell, because you showed some of their traits.
Make a point of spending time with those that you aspire to be like: whether you want to be a better father, husband or developer, improve your business skills or have a more fulfilling spiritual life, seek out those that you admire and just spend time with them.